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How to Use the “ACCEPTS” Skill for Distraction in Crisis
When you’re in a moment of emotional crisis, one of my favorite DBT skills for these moments is ACCEPTS.
DBT Skills to Stay Calm in the Heat of the Moment
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) teaches skills that teens can use to approach overwhelming situations in a healthy way.
Why Teens Might Not Be Happy About Family Vacations
For some teen, family vacation can be met with reluctance, frustration, or even outright resistance.
The One DBT Skill Every Teen Should Know
If there’s one skill that every teen should know, it’s Distress Tolerance. Why is it such a game-changer for teens?
How Parents and Teens Can Have a Stress-Free Holiday
The holidays can be a whirlwind of emotions and activities, but they can also be an opportunity to cultivate mindfulness and create lasting memories.
What is a Trigger? (And How to Cope During Halloween)
Understanding what triggers are and how to manage them can make Halloween more enjoyable for everyone.
Parents Sometimes Need to Be the "Bad Guy"
Even when teen know they need to hear "no," they will fight as if their life depended on it to get you to say “yes.” What can you do?
Support Your Teen with the STOP Skill
One powerful tool that can assist both parents and teens in managing overwhelming emotions is the DBT skill called STOP.
Chill Out with Progressive Muscle Relaxation
There’s a super simple technique that can help teens relax called Progressive Muscle Relaxation. It’s a game-changer for letting go of built-up tension and stress.
A Tip to Help Your Teen Develop Resilience
When parents struggle with a teen who has anxiety the key is to help them create a body memory of what it is like to power through a difficult time.
The Power of Putting Pen to Paper: Why Journaling Transcends Merely Thinking About Your Problems
Journaling allows us the capacity to actually process our thoughts and feelings, rather than simply experiencing them, and has several benefits.
Noticing Joy: Shifting Perspective - A Guide to the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Skill
The skill Noticing Joy encourages individuals to utilize mindfulness and shift their focus on amplifying positive experiences.
Top 3 Tips to Help Teens Adjust with Back to School
As summer comes to end, many teens experience that feeling of dread knowing another school year is approaching.
Why Punching a Pillow Isn't Anger Management
Punching a pillow might temporarily provide a sense of release, but it can reinforce aggressive behavior rather than dissipating anger.
Holiday Family Stress Management Tips
As parents, our fantasy is to have wonderful holiday family gatherings. Alas, it doesn’t always play out like that. What can you do?
3 Ways to Connect with Your Teen During the Holidays
Often we feel so overwhelmed with all the things we have to do that we sometimes forget that the holidays are mostly to celebrate being with family.
How Mindfulness Helps Teens Heal from Trauma
Mindfulness can help those who have trauma learn how to cope with their intrusive thoughts and memories. It can help us to change the way we think.
Parents’ Guide to Your Teen’s Emotional Outbursts
It is so easy to give advice for how to deal with your teen’s emotional outbursts when you are not in the midst of your teen’s screaming fit or even watching them physically act out.
Overcoming Negative Thoughts
All of us have moments where our harsh inner critic pops its ugly head. How do you overcome these thoughts?